We want to present a clear, affirmative message. Sex is a good thing in life; your sexuality is a positive, integral part of your personality. The essential issue is how to express your sexuality so it enhances your life and relationship. You are sexual from the day you are born until the day you die. Sex can play a 15 - 20% beneficial role in your life and enhance relationship satisfaction, whether at age 20, 40, 60, or 80.
It is important that both you and your partner value sex as a positive energy in your lives. Sex encompasses how you use your bodies for touch, pleasure, fun, and play. Seeing sex as more than intercourse invites you both to utilize affection and soothing touches as a message of mutual acceptance, cohesion, support and closeness.
Satisfying sex begins with your strong approval of your sexuality, appreciating your built-in personal drive for sex, and the contribution of sexual satisfaction for you and your relationship. Sexually satisfied men and couples value sex as inherently good and intentionally counter any negative judgments of sex. While sex - like any aspect of life - can be misused or abused, the drive for sex, the urge to connect with another, the longing for intimacy is respectable and vital energy for a man.